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How to learn to love yourself and improve your self worth

What’s going wrong in the modern world when increasing numbers of people are falling prey to depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues? Much of the time, we’re forgetting the importance of our own self-love, self-respect and self-worth.

We’re all stretched for time these days in a hectic world full of work, financial and family commitments. This means it’s so important to make the most of the precious time you do have, and not waste it. Maybe life isn’t going quite the way you planned right now. Do you ever find yourself asking these questions:

What would I love to do for myself?
Where would I like to be in my life?
Who do I want to spend my time with?
When will I be able to meet all these dreams and wishes?
Why am I not achieving this right now?

What’s preventing most of us from reaching our dreams and achieving self-worth is being too busy and not taking a break for ‘me time’. If we have children, for example, we always ensure their needs are met before our own. That’s only natural, but we mustn’t forget to do something for ourselves too, or stress will build up and tension will rise. Even if you don’t realize it at the time, it’s there in your body and mind, affecting your health and your well-being.

Self Love

As you slowly learn to devote some ‘me time’ for yourself, you’ll realize that it’s not selfish to need that time out, and to desire love, happiness and joy, because you deserve it as much as everyone else. You spend so much time making sure everyone else in your life is satisfied that it’s so easy to forget about yourself.

So how DO you make sure you get that time into your schedule to think, rest, heal and gain inspiration? Try to make a habit of it and jot down in your diary a few breathing spaces each week where you’ll make time for yourself, and stick to it. Soon, you’ll wonder how you ever got by without it. Visualize these times as a colourful garden or a private retreat just for you in the middle of a busy day. Treat yourself to a well-deserved gift, go and have some time out with friends or simply by yourself, and let others take on some of your responsibilities for a change. It’s okay to let go sometimes. Above all, be kind to yourself and you’ll find that you’ve suddenly got more capacity to be kind to others.If we’re stressed inside, we can become moody and be discouraging on the outside and that will reflect in our experiences with other people.

Self-love is about finding inner peace, which includes learning how to forgive, letting go of the past and accepting yourself fully for who you are.

Self Respect

Just like self-love, self-respect is vital to your well-being. Do you tend to follow the crowd, or do you go your own way as an individual? Are you living your dream, or is there something missing? What would make YOU happy? Take time to think about your own goals, and don’t just accept those that are written for you by society.

We all have hidden strengths and talents, but we’re so often caught up in the day-to-day whirlwind of life that we just can’t see them. Taking time out of your routine will help you identify these skills and realize where you really want to go in life. Just because we all have stresses and obligations doesn’t mean we can’t make something better out of our lifestyles, even if it means diverting from the usual, expected state of things and going off the beaten track.

If you struggle to find your strengths and worry about how to put them into action, why not consider finding a great life coach to discover what lies deep inside and how to unlock your true gifts?

Above all, remember how important it is to find your self-worth and release those stores deep inside you of resilience, power, self-love, self-respect, and individuality, against any problems and challenges you face in life. After all, those challenges are simply part of life’s journey, and adversity can often bring out the very best in you.
“In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.” – Albert Camus

 

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